All people want achieve their dreams. Different people have their own dreams .then, why most of the people are unable to achieve their dreams? Are their dreams are fake or unrealistic? Are they didn't take efforts for getting it? Some people have their dreams to make a lots of money , buy expensive car , live luxury life . After sometime , they forget all these things because they failed to achieve their dreams . finally, you go back to the meandering a life you were living and you feel sorry to yourself for every single day of your life because you gave up on something that made you feels alive.
Do you know how painful it was to give up on your dreams ? Yes, of course . It is the most painful moment, when you give up your dreams and go back to normal life . There is nothing left except regret
Different people may have their own problems to give up dreams . here are some reasons why most people give up on their dreams.
1.its too much hard than you think
when you just start to walk on the road of success , there are a lots of sacrifices, difficulties and obstacles which you have to faced . Then , it is much more harder than you think to walk on the road . There are a lots of failures involved and one needs to keep going, in spite of the failure , while learning from the failure . Following your dreams is hard unless you can afford a lots of failure financially and emotionally . People give up their dreams because it is too much hard . It's not easy . You would be able to bear the pain of going through the journey only if you really love what you are doing .
2.nobody cares about story
it's true nobody care about story until you win . It's most important reason why most people give up their dreams . You just don't need to believe yourself on your dreams , you need others to have to believe on your dreams especially family members. When you didn't get approval from family to achieve your dream , then you have to faced with financially problems . They didn't try to understand your problems. There is lack of money in teen age. If you didn't get family support , you get start external support . You go away from your home and makes enough money to convert yours dreams into reality. After sometimes you lost focus on your dreams , and think it's too late to achieve a dreams and burry them . Some cases, family may become a dream killer for many dreamers.
3.fear of failure
, Due to failure , most people didn't even try . People give up if they face constant failure, they can't find the way to chance of outcome. You have to know that failure is a part of success not opposite . If you never try , you never know the reality. People think if they were failed, they were judged by the society . They care more than other people opinion than their dreams. Don't care about those people who always put obstacles . If you went to proceed , you need to stop dealing with these toxic people ,who always want to kill your dreams. You just need keep going your works , and keep looking for ways you can make your dreams comes true .
4 lack of patience
some people want instant result. They focus more on end result rather than process . That's why they give up their dreams . Patience is important to be succeed. Early success is scam , great things takes time . You have to take some patience for your result . You don't in which steps you will be succeed. No matter , how bad the situation was . If your dreams are true , keep going, keep patience and be hopeful . One day you will definitely achieve your dreams.
5.due to toxic environment.
It was hard truth that our society didn't allows us to follow our dreams. Our parents are ready to spend more money on socially acceptable degrees like medicine , law , pilot , engineering etc . But not pay money for unconventional careers like music , photographer, blogging etc . They think it's all about waste of time and money . They didn't understand our feelings. I had faced this problems too. There are other many dreamers like you and me ,which are facing toxic environment . Many of them are forced to quit their dreams.
6.people give up because they don't believe in themselves
Without self_belief you cannot achieve your dreams. If you don't belief yourself, then why other people believe you ? Sometimes, we lost hope and stop believing ourselves . It takes mental toughness in the face of mind_mumbling obstacles and end up of your journey. You had beliefs when you started . You cannot afford to loose it . If you lost your hope and cannot believing yourself , then remember one thing , why you started your journey? , why it is important and what is the purpose of your life ?
7.lack of self discipline
Self discipline is a ability to control own feelings and overcome weakness. It begins mastery of your own thoughts. Discipline is the key element to achieve a dreams . Without discipline there is no sustain achievement . If there is lack of discipline , there is lack of success . Goals never comes true without self-discipline . And your dreams never comes true without discipline .
Due to lack of discipline , many peoples dreams are just dream . Most of the people always go for the easy option , but now if you take easy option , your life will be harder later . But those who take hard way now , their life will easier later . It you cannot develop discipline , you cannot make the end result . If you cannot control what you think then you also cannot control what you do . If you want to be succeed , makes your dreams comes true . You have set goal , make them clear,make them meaningful , and give them deadlines. You won't always be motivated so you must learn to be disciplined . With discipline, your result are improve . When your result are improve , then your desire to grow rise .
8. They got distracted
Some people give up because of distraction . Distraction may be external or internal . Distraction is like a parasite to the mind . If you don't kill distraction , it will kills your dreams . With distraction , you cannot focus on your dreams . Then , how do you chase your dreams . It is important to avoid all the distraction . Shut the door, just focus on your dreams , and your goals .we all have 24 hours in a day . It depends upon people how you sent it ? You have a choice either you use it for achieving your dreams or you waste it by getting distract. It is dream killer of most of the people.
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